Because I've been there. And I've spent a lot of time wondering how much better things would be if I wasn't the one everything was left to. Why couldn't it be the person who always seemed to know what they were doing? Who was more-- [ he frowns ] Anyway. Most people can get what it is to be sad, or even guilty, but that's something else entirely. And maybe it's not like that for you. But if it is, I just want you to hear from someone who knows you, that we're lucky to have you. You, still here with us. That you're the one we couldn't do this without and you're stronger than you probably realize.