Yes, I will give them that, but they have to understand that everyone else just learned all of this. Everyone needs to be allowed time to accept it without anyone jumping down their throats for daring to have a differing opinion while they're working through it. Not everyone even understands hell itself, they can't be expected to understand what the fuck is happening with barely an explanation. Like this shit is literally fucking bananas and telling people they have to blindly trust anyone that has been keeping secrets from them isn't fair.

[ vi doesn't sound accusatory or like she is trying to make sam be her owl, she sounds endlessly patient but she 1000% understands why spike was so frustrated and she doesn't think he is wrong, even if she does think he was being dramatic lumping everyone together. ]