I'd hate to sound like I'm disregarding your gender identity, Harrison, but wives don't wear suits that well. [ she points to him, smiling steadily. ] You're gay, but not with Helen. [ it's banter-y, rather than delivered as a correction. she's just keeping up and establishing her understanding. this is not a trans-lesbian relationship ok this is some sassy gay friend material and she knows because she has her own. wow she misses danny that was sudden. her smile falters just slightly and she straightens in answer. ] You can call me Lydia.